Your partner has been bugging you into wearing a day collar, but everything he gives looks too festive. You can't even imagine yourself wearing it at work or just when you are out shopping. He provides you suggestive slut chokers and spiky ones, so how can he expect you to wear it out and proud in public? Not everyone understands the life of a submissive, especially when you are inside a room full of vanilla people.

Your feelings are valid. For a subtler version of the collar, you can ask your partner to give you something like the Sassy Discreet Sub Collar.

Day collars can be discreet enough that it almost looks like you are wearing a piece of jewelry. It should also be one-of-a-kind to suit well with any outfit you'll wear. Your dominant must be keen on people's judgment. That is, he must be aware that you could be a laughing stock with what he provides. And that's not something he wants to happen. With this subtle collar, it is as if you are hitting two birds with one stone. You can spare yourself and oblige to your dominant's wish—at the same time.

This product comes in three variants you can choose from. One has a thick black bow attached to a rhinestone-embedded alloy-based necklace. The other also has a ribbon but is longer, extending up to the chest area. And the last version has two small bows on each side. These latter two variants have pearl strands as their necklace.

All materials used in this product are hypoallergenic so that you can lay all your guards down. It is also adjustable and can fit most neck sizes. It's reliable and sturdy; you can use it as an everyday piece of jewelry.

Ask your dominant to give you this Sassy Discreet Sub Collar instead. Explain to him why it has to be something like this and not what he keeps giving you. Lead him the way so he can add this one to his cart. Happy collaring!